My mother's advice to me was to stop looking for the right one, BE the right one. Sounded good but not really sure what all that encompasses, although I now have an awesome wife that thinks highly of me and puts up with my quirky nature...most of the time. Oh, my mother also said, "there are worse things than being single". My mother is full of wise advice. I'd tell her about a good deal I got on a recent purchase. She would say, every time, without fail, "it would be even cheaper if you didn't buy it". Hard to argue with that! In all seriousness, learn to enjoy whatever "season" you are in, and being single really is not a bad thing. If you find the right one, great. If not, that's great also. Keep riding the bikes, go to TW gatherings, and enjoy life.