stupid question really.. do i really need to answer?
No, you don't need to answer. Tony apparently overlooked that you didn't have a torque wrench. I think we all make our fair share of mistakes. Personally, I try to be patient with others' mistakes in hopes they will be patient with mine. The book calls for 6 Nm or 4.2 ft. lb of torque on the bolts, which of course doesn't really help you out since you don't have a torque wrench. So as I see it, you have two options, either ask around and try to locate a torque wrench, or just tighten them up with a little less force than you used when you twisted them off. Free, downloadable manual here if you're interested. Clutch assembly and torque values begin on Page 135.