I don't remember the seals as being that hard to drive in. Not being there, let me just throw out some ideas of things to check - remote troubleshooting, or eliminating possibilities.
Compare the outside diameter of your new seals to the old seals you pulled out. It's not likely, but possible they gave you the wrong seals, and easy to check. I used OEM parts, the Alls Balls might be slightly different.
Double check that the socket is smaller in OD than the fork ID.
Did you note the shoulder that limits the downward travel of the seals? When I did my forks the seals went right in, and I could easily tell when they bottomed on the shoulder. When we did my brother's forks it was less definite when the seals had bottomed. I kept tapping on them waiting for the sound and feel that they had bottomed on the shoulder, when in fact they were already there. They're down all the way when you can put the dust seal on top and the groove for the snap ring is fully exposed.
Another idea - sometimes if the seal is not square in the bore, in other words if one side of the seal is lower than the other, it takes some extra pressure and persistence to get it leveled out. By the way, one of the reasons for using a socket just slightly smaller in OD than the seal is so most of the force will be applied to the vertical shoulder of the seal, and therefore less likely to deform the seal.
You were right to stop. There has to be something holding them. Let us know what you find, or don't find.