In my case; I turned out bad. I have a sister (Sue) who you guys know about who turned out good. (I think she just didn't get caught doing bad stuff..haha) My little brother John, much like myself; also was led astray, but he is now on the straight and narrow.What I was never able to wrap my head around with kids is how is it that 2 of 3 children turn out to be good as gold and the third one is bad to the bone? Same exact upbringing in the same family structure yet one takes a left turn, gets involved with a bad crew and ends up in trouble and a dope addict while the other two are just fine. Two of my friends have daughters who went bad and in my immediate family we have a couple boys that are heading in that direction. My brothers and me all are doing fine while our sister is a complete mess. I guess you don't have the answer and may not have ever thought about it until issues like this hit home. Why one nephew is a complete A hole and his brother and sister are great kids eludes us all. I just can't point a finger and blame the parents when 2 out of 3 do well but the third causes nothing but life changing problems for the entire family.